ELDER HEALING -- Coming from a loving family where age was irrelevant, I learned from the beginning of my life to love and honor my grandparents. My love of the aging has continued throughout my life. My work with Monmouth County Park system for seven years was instrumental in helping me develop programs for the elderly that nurture their spirits, minds and bodies. My work has included treatments with chronic joint and back pain, digestive upsets and the overwhelming fears that often come with chronic conditions. I have been honored to work with my dear Uncle Harry who passed the beginning of 2004 and in his last months, he asked me to work with him. We shared stories